my motivational song

Salam to all my readers. it's the last post and i guess it's quite sad as i may no longer be active due to the high commitment. today i will be sharing about my one song that gives me motivation. for me, we all need motivation in our life. and motivation can be in thousand or million ways. the song is I Have a Dream by Westlife.

I have a dream, a song to sing
To help me cope with anything
If you see the wonder of a fairy tale
You can take the future even if you fail
I believe in angels
Something good in everything I see
I believe in angels
When I know the time is right for me
I'll cross the stream - I have a dream

I have a dream, a fantasy
To help me through reality
And my destination makes it worth the while
Pushing through the darkness still another mile
I believe in angels
Something good in everything I see
I believe in angels
When I know the time is right for me
I'll cross the stream - I have a dream
I'll cross the stream - I have a dream

I have a dream, a song to sing
To help me cope with anything
If you see the wonder of a fairy tale
You can take the future even if you fail
I believe in angels
Something good in everything I see
I believe in angels
When I know the time is right for me
I'll cross the stream - I have a dream
I'll cross the stream - I have a dream

this song is about a dream of a person who does believe in fairy tale. in fairy tales, we know that even snow white who ate poisonous apple can be alive from the long rest comma after being saved by a prince. well fantasy might kill us but it can give us hope and motivation. but daydreaming might kills us slowly as it might make us lazy. the singer believes in angels, because he knows the angels will help him through thick and thin of his/her life. Parable of believing in angels is like believing that he/she still has hopes no matter how hard the situation is. Sometimes, it takes one person the courage, bravery to make transition in one's life. I like this sentence "You can take the future even if you fail" where a person who fails at the beginning believe that he/she still has a future. We can't predict things but thinking positively can make our future brighter even though we have failed before. Fail doesn't mean we will fail forever, because failure teaches us to be more mature in making decision. I was once have made the biggest mistake in my life which i know everyone has made a mistake too because we are not God, we are not perfect. I didn't regret because i learned from the mistakes i have made until i become a man. While, "i'll cross the stream" a singer mentioned in the lyrics means that a person in this song has goals and dreams. What's the point of living in this world if you don't have any goals to be achieved? Successful people do have goals in their life. If you don't have any, do find one :) Have a good day!

My passion about football

Hello!
We meet again my dear readers. today i'll touch a bit about my passion on football. i believe almost all of the guys are into football...am i right? :D guys know what guys usually do. ehem it's not personal. and that's why woman needs a man to be his best friend. friendzone alert (-_-)

For me, i'm into football. i like football and sometimes i value the skills, the formation and style of play as an art. it's a bit weird when the person doesn't know how to play football, has passion in football. my father influenced me with football since i was young. he was a football manager and i guess i am attracted by how the way he managed the team. when we talk about football, i can make a comparison with an organization. there are managers, football players are the employees, staffs, CEOs and also head of department (finance, marketing, sporting director etc.)

as we all knows, football players are considered as employees because when a football club paid some amount of money to acquire his service, he is bounded to sign a contract with the club. usually the club will offer long-term contract like 4-5 years. for example, Abu is playing for Team A. Team B want to get him to play for them. so Team B will pay certain amount of money; agreed by both teams and also increment in salary for the player. to make it clear, let's say David Beckham. he played for Manchester United. then he transferred to Real Madrid. they pay Manchester United certain amount of money to get David Beckham to play. so David Beckham will be owned by Real Madrid and he is entitled to follow the contract signed by him. if the player is performing better, he will be rewarded with pay rise and more benefits. same goes to employee in an organization. to attract other employees to work with us, our offer must be better than thee company he is working with.

i love being a manager for a football club. i watch football games just to know the tactics they used and i try to apply it when i'm playing my video games. there are many types of tactics can be used; all attack, rigid, side overload and counter attack. apart from that, i love seeing football with high level of tempo. this will show the quality of football as well as the ability of football players. everyone can play football, but to find talented footballers are quite hard and that's why having experiences in playing football is quite helpful. in every football club, there are scouts. these scouts will help the manager find talented football players to improve his squad. same goes to HR department. person in charge in HR department will assess and evaluate the candidates to make sure that he/she will be a good choice for the company.

everyone has their favourite team. so when they go out and watch football with their friends, the guys might as well get too excited. no one is willing to see their team lose. we expect our favourite team to win all the games. this one will get more interesting if your team is playing against your friend's team. ahhh this one is special. why? because friendship can turn into enemy for 90 minutes. passion is everything ;)

What makes you motivated?

have you ever read motivational quotes? and you will have the spirit, encouragement to do something after reading them? i believe there's at least one in your life. it might not be a long sentence, even a single word can motivate you.

this is one of my favourite quotes. 'Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible' the person is trying to encourage me to be kind, not only to human but also my surroundings. why should kind be a personality? kindness shows how high our value is. for me, i believe kindness will not only help other people but also will make me feel appreciated for living in the world. there are many ways of kindness; helping people, giving encouragement, saving animals from danger(like cats) or giving donation. kind also can be a form of our perception. having bad or negative perception will not help us to be kind, but the other way around. this is because our mindset will tone our overall on everything. can you be purely kind person if your mind says that it is a bad thing to do? of vourse you can but you are a hypocrite. ditch hypocrite in order to make improvements in your life :p

this one caught my eyes too. it's like giving me motivation to be a successful person in the world. i have dreams, but it will take an endless hardwork in achieving them. i'm not afraid to dream because it's what i want in my life. for example, being a billionaire, having exotic cars and collecting antiques and rare items. these are part of them. in order to achieve them, i must develop my discipline first. discipline will be the key to ensure whether our dreams can be achieved or not. in addition, it takes 5 seconds to determine our future. i always say to myself, i gotta do it now. it's just that i'm afraid that by procrastinating, i might forget what i wanna do in my life. whenever i'm in the course to achieve my dream, i'll give my all just to make sure that it is in my grasp. and once i get what i want, the first thing i'll say is "Alhamdulillah". gotta give thanks to Allah for showing me the path to my dream...

thats all for now. we'll talk soon. goodbye my fellow readers :)

Conflicts that i have faced

Assalamualaikum :)

Have you ever faced conflicts with people around you? If yes, what are the causes of the conflicts? There will be many answers, some might be the same and some might be different.

Conflicts arise when at least two people, who do not understand each other trying to stand up for what they might think is right. Everyone is taught differently, they are raised differently. These differences will make people argue so that one of them will get the victory of winning the arguments. Conflicts can be tense, relaxful, or sarcastic. Can conflicts be avoided? No, because avoiding will not settle the conflicts!

I would like to share conflicts that i have faced since i'm enroll in UiTM Merbok, Kedah. I stayed outside the campus for 3 semesters which equal to 15 months, more or less 1 and a half year. One of the conflicts that i have faced was keeping durian inside the fridge. My housemate was a durianator and i didn't mind about it at first. But then he decided to keep a small box that contain durian inside the fridge. I'm against the action because the fridge was used to keep drinks. So when he put the durian inside the fridge, all the drinks was eventually got the smell of durian. Ee yuck it's something that i can't tolerate. Drinks should not be mix with smelly foods. Then i decided to take out the food, put it somewhere else. So what he did next? He put it again inside the fridge. Oh man it's stressful for me. We didn't talk for almost 2 weeks. But then both of us decided to settle down the problem, because we're housemates. We have to see each other's face everyday. And it's not worth it to keep dragging on the problem. We talk to each other, sound out our disagreements. Just to make things better and yeah. Things changed at that time.



Guidelines in solving conflicts :
- don't use high voice when arguing
- always ready to listen to the opposition's view
- talk face-to-face and be gentle
- don't afraid to admit your mistakes
- it's better to say directly than keeping it inside
- don't make yourself dumb, be smart

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hello. here we are again for the how many time i don't remember. hehe. today i'll kickstart my post with an advertisement. nahh, short ad only maa. i'm just a Malay being a Malaysian. sometimes 'rojak' language can be an alternative. oops! my ads to day will be about smartphone. why? it's because i'm obsessed with smartphone. not 100 or 1000 smartphone, but just one will be adequate.

so this is one of the hottest smartphone today. oh come on, who wouldn't splash their money on this phone? this is the first iPhone with gold colour. before, it came with only black and silver. starting from this phone, the gold colour has been the jam of every user. for me, it's unique because it is different from other smartphones. apart from that, it comes with touch sensor. it will read the fingerprint of the owner only. security is top level wootz. the camera is 8 megapixels and it's  quite clear. there was a phone with 20++ megapixels camera, but the quality nah it's disgusting i tell you. the front camera is 1.2 megapixels, as it is mainly used for FaceTime. FaceTime is video call for Apple products only. it's like skype. the battery can last for 250 hours if you are not using it. 250 hours are quite long enough because there's not much phones that can hold on for that long.

in addition, the sim card used is nano-sim. past iPhones used micro-simcard, it's like the medium size of a sim card. iPhone 5s supports LTE. LTE is 4G mobile internet connection, the fastest for mobile internet so far.

Recommendation :
- will be one of the greatest phone for your collection.
- buy if you have extra money BUT NEVER use your education money.
- might cost you a lot money, in terms of casing, screen protector.
- Apple products play a lot with money. so better save money first before deciding to buy iPhone.
- extra care needed.

Friendship

houmenta! having good time everybody? Alhamdulillah i'm having a quality time. although one bad thing happened to me this week. my car was desperately need my attention. yeah, i gave full attention and it cost a lot of money. well, too much attention i guess. oh yes oh yes talking about attention, how do you manage to give your full attention on something? by making it as a priority or by ignoring other things? what will your attention be? life, friendship, relationship, dream, work? let's turn to the next page.

today i'm going to touch about friendship. are you in a group which your friends never exist? i believe the answer is no. well, friends are part of our life. growing up together, assisting each other. but one wrong move and you will be left alone, not fulfilling your parents' dreams. we don't want that to happen as they are willing to risk everything for their children. when talking about friends, what are the things that come out from your mind? well if you ask me that question, i'll answer the question like this "merah, bulu karpet, negro, siam, sheriz". hahaha. it's like an equation of my life, where i can use them in one solution. i may not be the next Albert Einstein or the new generation of equatic genius but just let that sink in.

friends are like your second family, where they might not be just friends. my closest friends are like my small family already. we help each other and continuously giving support to each other. when having friends around you, don't be a hypocrite because you're not showing to them who you really are. i'm not asking you to be naked to show about yourself, but just let them understand you. it will be worthy because they might be with you for the rest of your life. quarrels and misunderstanding will make this small group of friends get closer. the concept is the same as riding a bicycle. you will get injury first before you can ride the bicycle like an expert. just don't be too expert, you're not joining Le Tour De Langkawi :p

friendship isn't always about how long you have know this/that particular person. friendship is about how deep you know that person. sometimes, a guy you know for a short time period might be your true friend instead of a person whom you know for 3-4 years. when dealing with your friends, the first thing that you need to develop in yourself is tolerate. don't be too selfish or arrogant. it does not related with 'I Love You Mr Arrogant' at ALL. mind laugh for my joke? thank you you have taken a good step in decreasing your stress level. hahaha.

next, be responsible and say no to hypocrite. as a human, we need to be responsible for the actions that we have done. take the responsibility and don't be afraid to admit your mistakes. mistakes will be our invaluable experience. our friends can help us to correct the mistakes by taking another alternative. sometimes we need them to be our brain because they might have better options.

there's a saying "Your mind can go ahead and imagine what it wants to imagine, but a true friend will always remain true, in spite of the false messages running through your mind". i guess that's all for now. i'll leave you with pictures of what i call true friends. BUT, not all of them are in the pictures. sorry. till then. goodbyee

Ethics & Integrity of a human

Welcome back! This is my fifth post already. Omg i can't believe it. Wanna know why? Actually i'm not into that blog but things change over time. Now i understand why people prefer blog. It's addictive and you can share your views, negative or positive comments with everyone else without having to see their annoying face. Can you imagine how annoying that person can be when you are sharing something or giving your opinions? Oh....it's like you wanna smack him/her down.

Oh Afiq, please stop with your hardcore imagination. Let's get back into where we should be. So the topic for today is about integrity and ethics. For me, integrity is more about the value of a person while ethics will be more about the character, the surface of a person.  Integrity and ethics...hmm i believe both of that will reflect yourself whether you're a good / bad / neat / messy person. Sometimes first impression gives a lot of impact on that particular person. Let's say Mr T highlights more about his physical appearance. There, can you see it? There's ethics in his preference. When it comes to physical appearance, it will be about neat, tidy, clean and smart. It might be the hair is short, beard trim perfectly, suitable outfit from top to bottom and maybe loafer. That's the characteristic about a smart guy. Be smart to gain confidence. Everyone is familiar with the ethics when eating. Why do we need to follow the ethics? So that we will not look like a retard. Apart from that, by having ethics we can define things that are right and wrong. Is smoking a wrongdoing for you? Haaa tricky question. Clickety clack clikety clack. You're still thinking the answer.

Aha! Integrity. This one is my fav. Integrity is the thing that makes you a great person. Honest, patience, confidence might be the example. By showing your integrity, trust me people will respect you. If you are a leader, integrity means everything. You will give your group members a sense of confidence to do their job. Leader will be the direction for the movement of the group. Having low level of integrity in yourself will cause you big trouble. People will 'fuck' you (fuck here means go against). Once people hate you, don't worry you will have to fix yourself from the start. Don't be afraid to show your integrity as it is better than being a hypocrite :p furthermore, people with low integrity might commit crimes. Omg so scared :O what are the crimes? It can be anything, anywhere anytime when it comes to people with less integrity in oneself.


Just a small reminder for everyone. Broad 'Network' will help you become successful because thats the world today. Goodluck guys in chasing your dreams ;)